some have complained about IR dating sites being problematic

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by tuckerreed, Feb 24, 2006.

  1. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    ok, sorry to bother. i guess you dont wish to have a conversation about it, sorry.

    can anyone explain what is wrong with the personal ads on this website that bm say they are uncomfortable to talk with any of the women(not the cuckolds or the purely adult sex ads) i am talking about the normal ones, what are they saying that is wrong.

    ex. Sonya posted a very nice one, she even came in the room to have conversations as tall girl, she seemed really nice

    anyone?? come on Cris perhaps you can help me out, its not a hard subject at all
     
  2. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

  3. jxsilicon9

    jxsilicon9 Active Member

    Re: some have complained about IR dating sites being problem

    I've never met anyone off a dating site. But I have heard numerous horror stories from people who tried dating site's.If I could verify someones identity then I wouldn't have any problems meeting someone from a dating site.
     
  4. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    Oh yes i share the same opinion too SG.
     
  5. Nuar

    Nuar New Member

    I don't see anything bad in getting to know somebody by internet on dating websites. However, must confess, that 90 out of 100 ads are trash. But you can always find the pearl!
    Several years ago I used any dating sites very actively for finding just friends mostly, and I have find some good people from all over the world. We are still good friends with them.
    So, I do think it's possible to find somebody worth online. only patience is needed and interest. :)
     
  6. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    A friend of mine tried one of those IR sites hoping to meet a gorgeous white woman. To his horrendous astonishment, it turned out to be a gay man looking for a black male partner. :shock:
     
  7. jxsilicon9

    jxsilicon9 Active Member

    :lol: I had a friend looking for a woman on a dating site. It turned out to be some fat ugly woman. He told her that he was going to get popcorn and left the theater.
     
  8. Nuar

    Nuar New Member

    haha... yeah, I wonder what the people expect when they put somebody's else picture on the web...
    Though, it happens everywhere - equally in local webs and in international/interracial... So, one should be careful and don't fell in love too easily. :)
     
  9. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    so tell me Cris, who's picture and personality were these people using? Are you saying that if I look at 10 pictures on any of these IR sites, 9 will not be the same person that is posted? how do you know this?
     
  10. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    Again, i have posted peoples personal profile and why the person's profile is not a real one.

    there is a new woman named Julia from the Ukraine, why is her application fake? is it not the person who is posting? Who is the model? the people dont look like models here, and why would a woman who wants to pretend, use a fat woman as her model?

    can someone give me an answer to these questions,
    Cris?
     
  11. Nuar

    Nuar New Member

    Maybe Cris mean dating websites with women whose pictures are too good to be true? That does exists sometimes. :) Though, it is not only about women, I used to receive many letters from the guy who looked more and more handsone on every next pic he sent me... of course he was not for real. :) but that was easily to say not only judging from his pictures, but also from the style he wrote. :)
    In some websites people make good money posting pics of models and writing e-mails from their behalf. Maybe these webiste meant Cris?
     
  12. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    I created the thread and clearly was asking just about regular people-men and women. What is wrong with them, what did they do to make you feel that ALL dating websites could not be trusted?

    No one has answered the question so I am trying to get a clear answer for it. All the people I see on them all look like regular people, I cant tell if they are trying to pretend. Tell me how do you know if they are not real?
     
  13. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    If people are using false pictures, where are they getting these pictures from? the women in the photo gallery of www.interracialsingles.net do not look like models, are not ugly but are just average women in regular situations. if people are trying to pose, why are they using the worse photos and descriptions, instead of saying they are beautiful, tons of money, excellent careers, etc??
     
  14. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

  15. Nuar

    Nuar New Member

    No! I meant that pictures that look too good to be true are mostly not of real people. You will mostly see this pics on some ordinary dating websites, especially dealing with "russian brides" yack...
    Though, I'm absolutely sure that people on most websites are real, I've never got any idea about why they should use picture with ugly woman to hide their apperance. Maybe just for sthe reason of horrible shyness???? :))

    Maybe we just talked about different things. Again, I'm sure people on most of websites are for real. I have big dating experiance, belive it. :)
     
  16. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    yes we are talking about different things, I asked about regular women on this personal website, and other IR websites, not russian ones.

    there is a girl on this personal one from Ukraine, she is pretty but not an model--why would she be lying about herself? she didnt say anything that would make anyone think she is a fake character.

    why are you talking about other websites anyway, I made it clear many times that I was asking about these websites ONLY.
     
  17. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    Well the "woman"who turned out to be a man said he used his sister's pictures as he knew my friend was looking for a white woman. Why he did that and did not opt for a gay dating site is beyond my imagination. I have no knowledge about dating sites as i have never used one and have no intention of doing so anytime in the future but i would love to believe anyone with common sense can tell that there would always be some pseudos out there.
     
  18. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Tuck, we've already gave several individual inputs that should've given you a better understanding to the answer of your question. WE KNOW that you are only talking about THIS website, and only IR sites, but just because you are doesn't make them any better or different in 'genuineness' than any other type of dating site, and like I mentioned earlier, what we have been saying doesn't constitute the minority, but the MAJORITY on ANY type of dating site.
     
  19. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    sardonic, but the topic was about something specific, but ok if you dont understand that that was the topic i will drop it and move on
     
  20. Nuar

    Nuar New Member

    Just a thought...
    if you never trust anybody on IR or any other website and do not give a chance, so how are you ever gonna meet anybody nice there?
    1 or 10 cases does not make a majority....
     

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