the beauty of dating outside your race

FG said:
I dont know shit, but maybe, if you up-front are dating "IR" you drop certain walls because you realize there m i g h t me some cultural difference, and thus, keep yourself more open and more receiving... and therefor maybe you bypass the initial hurdles because of it???

Granted, like it has been said so many times, after that, you have to be strong to deal w stuff that comes with "IR" dating..... However, because of our awareness of perceived differences, (whether real or not), we might be more open and bond faster???????
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Without a doubt, its all a matter of being open minded and confident in going after what you like. Something I have never been short on is speaking with confidence.

I remember my mom, when I came home on vacation from university, saw me with a white girl in a photograph, she asked me who it was, I was like a friend of mine. :) If she didn't know I liked white girls then she certainly knew afterwards.

She raised me to become a strong, confident man and respects me to make the right choices in life based on core values instilled in me from a young age about right and wrong.
 
FG said:
LOL, yes. That is how it works for me.

The way I see it wm can take some cues from bm when it comes to that. If they dont watch, most ww will be with bm eventually, and they will go "huh, what happened" LOL.
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LOL, with the divorce rates so high and interracial relationships increasing year upon year in the numbers, its going to keep rising with people looking in new directions.

If a person is stable, intelligent and driven why not broaden the horizons in life and love.
 
Pianoman said:
Yeah, certainly, ditto for me, I'm not sure if I spoke too strongly... I feel kinda weird talking about this stuff cause I'm sure it would come off as fetishism since I'm new here and no one would know how much I do value an authentic personal connection with an individual. I'm just kind of buzzed cause I don't really know anybody who talks like this and this site is COOL AS *&@!^%*!!!!! :smt023
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I've heard black guys and white guys say they like dark skinned women and no one finds a fault in them saying that.

However if a black guy says he likes fair skinned women its assumed that is somehow not alright, because its not politically correct I suppose due to historical circumstances.

What they don't grasp is it's liking fair skinned women within the context of a personal attraction, interests, personality of them as well. Its not like every woman I see is one I am going to be attracted to.

If a woman is argumentative, drama filled, always on edge, I'm checking out of that for my own piece of mind no matter how she looks. I don't do drama of Shakespearian proportions. :)
 
Tamstrong said:
I don't know what the hell y'all been drinking, but the least y'all can do is
share. :p

No, Ra-Ra, I didn't know that...I wouldn't advise testing that out, though. ;)
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It's that damn pussy juice ya'll got. That shit like sexual crack for some of us don't you know. :yawinkle:


Too Late!! That's why I don't post up recent pics of myself. :rolleyes:
 
Eye of Ra said:
It's that damn pussy juice ya'll got. That shit like sexual crack for some of us don't you know. :yawinkle:


Too Late!! That's why I don't post up recent pics of myself. :rolleyes:
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If that's what y'all been drinking, then nevermind...you don't have to share. The only "pussy juice" I have any interest in is my own. ;)

I know that's not it...you just know that you'd have a difficult time keeping the ladies off your sexy, chocolate ass. :smt077
 
karmacoma. said:
I worship the ground WW float over. They say one lick of a WW's pussy can give a man super-powers. Her beautiful eyes wield a hypnotic power that no woman can match. She can make you walk off a cliff if you're not careful. One flash of her white thighs can make a 747 go off course. Sex with a white woman de-ages you 5 years each time you fuck her. Fuck her long enough and you'll be 12 years old again like Benjamin Button. A white woman's wide ass was once used to keep ships from running up on the rocks when the lighthouse broke. A hundred lives were saved that stormy night. All these reasons and more are why I worship my White Goddesses.
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FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK HA HA HA HA!
 
Hmm.

Regardless of the choices we make now or in the future, the human race will eventually destroy itself or be destroyed. It would be interesting to see how another intelligent species might interpret the social divisions that have characterized so much of our recorded history on this planet.
 
Tamstrong said:
If that's what y'all been drinking, then nevermind...you don't have to share. The only "pussy juice" I have any interest in is my own. ;)

I know that's not it...you just know that you'd have a difficult time keeping the ladies off your sexy, chocolate ass. :smt077
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I'm taken remember, so the flattery will not get you what you want. :cool:

I do however appreciate the sentiment Sexy Texas. :D
 
Eye of Ra said:
I'm taken remember, so the flattery will not get you what you want. :cool:

I do however appreciate the sentiment Sexy Texas. :D
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Yes, Ra-Ra, honey...I know you're taken...the good ones usually are. ;)

I have to admit, though, I was a little hurt a first that you would accuse me of flattery, which means excessive or insincere praise. I wouldn't have said it if I didn't mean it. Thank you for redeeming yourself in the second half of your post by expressing your appreciation...you're very welcome. Btw, I appreciate the "Sexy Texas" & I appreciate you, too. :D
 
Tamstrong said:
Yes, Ra-Ra, honey...I know you're taken...the good ones usually are. ;)

I have to admit, though, I was a little hurt a first that you would accuse me of flattery, which means excessive or insincere praise. I wouldn't have said it if I didn't mean it. Thank you for redeeming yourself in the second half of your post by expressing your appreciation...you're very welcome. Btw, I appreciate the "Sexy Texas" & I appreciate you, too. :D
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I know that you mean what you say about me. But I can't let you think I have a big head about it. :wink:
 
Being black men usually from a different cultural background than mine, I love to learn about those differences. Of course it's not about the "race" but about the culture. "Race" itself is nothing but a very little DNA difference.

Oh, and I learned that I love to make old racist people mad while I walk around with a fine black guy ;)
 
Arwen said:
"Race" itself is nothing but a very little DNA difference.;)
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I remember sleeping in Genetics class and hearing this staement from the professor "we are all, regardless of race, genetically 99.9% the same, that means we are closer than we think". Oh well I am not a geneticists and used that class for my daily brief nap and when that statement was made I was in my delta wave of sleep stage so if further explaination is needed y'al can ask a qualified geneticist, lol
 
satyr said:
Hmm.

Regardless of the choices we make now or in the future, the human race will eventually destroy itself or be destroyed. It would be interesting to see how another intelligent species might interpret the social divisions that have characterized so much of our recorded history on this planet.
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They'd wonder why we spent our entire existence fighting with each other over stupid shit.
 
Arwen said:
Being black men usually from a different cultural background than mine, I love to learn about those differences. Of course it's not about the "race" but about the culture. "Race" itself is nothing but a very little DNA difference.

Oh, and I learned that I love to make old racist people mad while I walk around with a fine black guy ;)
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:smt023
 
There's nothing wrong with acknowledging and being proud of being with someone outside of your "race". Rather, it's a revelation that we have moved forward and those who insist on being too fixated on the past need to grow out of it.

Moreover,

A preference is a preference, but there is a big difference between someone with a preference and someone with an unhealthy of fetishist obsession.

(Sorry to be brief)
 
BigBrotherWise said:
There's nothing wrong with acknowledging and being proud of being with someone outside of your "race". Rather, it's a revelation that we have moved forward and those who insist on being too fixated on the past need to grow out of it.

Moreover,

A preference is a preference, but there is a big difference between someone with a preference and someone with an unhealthy of fetishist obsession.

(Sorry to be brief)
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good take
 
karmacoma. said:
I worship the ground WW float over. They say one lick of a WW's pussy can give a man super-powers. Her beautiful eyes wield a hypnotic power that no woman can match. She can make you walk off a cliff if you're not careful. One flash of her white thighs can make a 747 go off course. Sex with a white woman de-ages you 5 years each time you fuck her. Fuck her long enough and you'll be 12 years old again like Benjamin Button. A white woman's wide ass was once used to keep ships from running up on the rocks when the lighthouse broke. A hundred lives were saved that stormy night. All these reasons and more are why I worship my White Goddesses.
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ROLFMAO!
 
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