The "Thank you" thread

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Just one piece of advice if you are white, you will never win no matter how well intentioned your thoughts are when you mention the N word in any form whether it is used as an example or not. You have to be black to know how it feels like to hear the N word and no matter the context in which it is mentioned it will rankle some feathers.
 
chesbaygrl7 said:
Thank you, Jaisee.

What I was trying to do in this situation was say that as much as TDK felt that his use of the C word was appropriate in the situation for which he used it, as a woman, I felt that no situation, however bad, warranted the use of the word. Just as he, as a black man, could not find an appropriate aituation ever, for which the N word is appropriate. It was about the weight of the offense, not race or gender.
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Omg you are so full of fake outrage its hilarious. There's no out cry over words like bitch, asshole, or motherfucker. The first two synonymous with the" c word"a,, three could be very offensive language. Do you know where the term motherfucker comes from?
But for some reason you see the word cunt and its a cause for uproar? The word isn't anywhere near the" n word". People weren't being killed in masses as they screamed the word cunt, they never burned crosses on the front lawns of homes while painting cunt on said homes, there were never any signs that said no cunts allowed. How dare you try to compare the the two. You should be ashamed of yourself. Smdh.
 
APPIAH said:
Just one piece of advice if you are white, you will never win no matter how well intentioned your thoughts are when you mention the N word in any form whether it is used as an example or not. You have to be black to know how it feels like to hear the N word and no matter the context in which it is mentioned it will rankle some feathers.
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Understood, Appiah. I have tried to be a lady on this forum, and it appalls me that I've been called a racist. I was trying to demonstrate the gravity of the use of two offensive words. Apparently, I am the only one who feels that the words carry similar weight.

My intention was never to offend, only to let TDK know I didn't appreciate his attitude and how seriously it affected me. To those who took offense, my apologies.
 
luvattractivewomen said:
If you want to use racial slurs then that is your business. If you want to get angry with one man and use a racial slur to exact revenge for what the person has done to you that is also your business. The thing is, as I have expressed before, sometimes it is OK to fight fire with fire, but you must keep in mind that the Fire Department uses water. I have met many racists in my time who utilize a racial slur when a ______ (Insert minority) wrongs them. It isn't the race who did it to you, it is the person. If you are upset that he used a hurtful word, I can understand. But, flipping a racial slur is just plain bad form and ...well... racist.
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FYI - she implied that someone else would say that to TDK. She didn't mean it in a literal tense. TDK literally meant to say the "c" word.

Hence, you're getting angry over nothing.

chesbaygrl7 said:
Understood, Appiah. I have tried to be a lady on this forum, and it appalls me that I've been called a racist. I was trying to demonstrate the gravity of the use of two offensive words. Apparently, I am the only one who feels that the words carry similar weight.

My intention was never to offend, only to let TDK know I didn't appreciate his attitude and how seriously it affected me. To those who took offense, my apologies.
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There's no point conversing with these people. They aren't going to get it. That's why Tarshi posts up that picture just so we could think about something else.
 
Mikey said:
FYI - she implied that someone else would say that to TDK. She didn't mean it in a literal tense. TDK literally meant to say the "c" word.

Hence, you're getting angry over nothing.


There's no point conversing with these people. They aren't going to get it. That's why Tarshi posts up that picture just so we could think about something else.
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If it means nothing to you, don't get upset when it means something to everyone else.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Omg you are so full of fake outrage its hilarious. There's no out cry over words like bitch, asshole, or motherfucker. The first two synonymous with the" c word"a,, three could be very offensive language. Do you know where the term motherfucker comes from?
But for some reason you see the word cunt and its a cause for uproar? The word isn't anywhere near the" n word". People weren't being killed in masses as they screamed the word cunt, they never burned crosses on the front lawns of homes while painting cunt on said homes, there were never any signs that said no cunts allowed. How dare you try to compare the the two. You should be ashamed of yourself. Smdh.
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I don't agree with using the C word, but I do agree that I find it rather offensive when a person attempts to relate such a word to the "N" word. It's quite obvious people like that don't get it and don't want to.
 
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