what do white women love about black men?

Bryant said:
The black culture thing intrigues me quite a bit. It's intriguing because i have no idea what black culture is. It seems to be so many forms of it. From the outside looking in, it might seem different, but from my perspective, the black culture seems to be a mixture of things, but nothing in particular if that makes any sense. Maybe i'm retarded, but somebody please enlighten me as to what exactly black culture is, cause i still don't have a clue lol.
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You're no retard but very smart or observing black culture is a mixtures of cultures like hiphop Soul and other not sure how 2 give it its proper name but i live around it but yes u nailed it i love black cultures beingas well as music becuz it stands out and very creative they damn near if not invent all the pop music of r time
 
i love black men because.
black men appreciate the female body.
they are confident in themselves.
i love the swagger and love they show :)
and like stated above. there is nothing sexier
then seeing some nice chocolate skin against my light skin :)
its such a turn on. :) plus i love the lips


im a sucker for a chocolate man with juicy lips.
and then he does a sexy LL Cool J lick..

oh my god.
pantie dropper for me lol
 
Samantha8479 said:
i love black men because.
black men appreciate the female body.
they are confident in themselves.
i love the swagger and love they show :)
and like stated above. there is nothing sexier
then seeing some nice chocolate skin against my light skin :)
its such a turn on. :) plus i love the lips


im a sucker for a chocolate man with juicy lips.
and then he does a sexy LL Cool J lick..

oh my god.
pantie dropper for me lol
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You sound like you kinda got riled up while typing that.:mrgreen:
 
wow what about us lighter brothers:confused: don't caramel needs love to? i can't hate though, it really seems that when alot or some white women go black they really go for black:D
 
coolcustomer said:
wow what about us lighter brothers:confused: don't caramel needs love to? i can't hate though, it really seems that when alot or some white women go black they really go for black:D
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there is a thread about light skinned guys so you can see how many of women on here go for lighter black men :)
 
I love so many things about black men and on any given day I could answer this question with 100 different answers.

But by and large -- IMO and based on my experience -- I think black men have sexy voices especially when compared to white men. I used to date a radio reporter so I notice the deepness and sexiness of a black man's voice. I don't know if it is an accent thing or what. It's that deep, rich, sexy, authoritative, confident thing that just drives me crrrrazy... but most especially in the bedroom... (wowsa!)


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Hi everyone, I am new here. I found this site the other day and really like it. I have to say, the women who spoke of being liked/loved unconditionally by the black men they have dated is absolutely freaking true! The average Caucasian American male is so brainwashed and I'm sick of it. Most think women should be blonde, hairless like plastic Barbie dolls, and have surgically-altered breasts that look like cantaloupes. As a woman, I find the expectation/pressure to look/be perfect all the time to be suffocating. I know women who actually set their alarm clocks so that they can get up earlier than their boyfriends/husbands so that the men in their lives will only see the "perfect" version of themselves. Some have done this for decades. The African and Haitian men (I’ve never had the opportunity to date a black man who was born here) I have dated all have wanted me just the way I was—stretch marks, scars, cellulite, stomach rolls, spider veins and all. They could have cared less if I was too busy to make it to the salon to get my legs, bikini, eyebrows, or upper lip waxed.

Another thing that has always bothered me about the American Caucasian guys I’ve dated or been exposed to is that they think sex should be nice, neat, and clean when in fact great sex is just the opposite. They think there should be this small window in which they express their desire for you and the rest of the time they must act socially "appropriate". They also seem to think that to get a woman to sleep with them they need to get her drunk or at least tipsy so she will be more easily convinced/overpowered. The black guys I have dated, on the other hand, just seem to have passion and sexual desire coming out of their pores all the time. The guy I am with now is like that and I just love it. He doesn’t know this, but all he has to do is wink at me and I’d be willing to throw him on the floor and make love to him right there. He doesn’t need to get me (nor have I ever been) drunk for me to want to have sex with him. His natural sensuality is enough of an aphrodisiac. His emotional and physical warmth are enough to draw me to him and to want to stay there (I now know why cats like to sleep on furnaces, lol).

In short, this forum has made me realize that as a sensual, curvy woman, who knows how to flaunt it, trying to be completely/unconditionally loved or desired by a Caucasian guy is like trying to buy groceries at Home Depot. You can’t get nourishment from a hardware store and all this time I have been shopping in the wrong store. Here’s to being loved as you are and shopping in the right place for love!:smt023
 
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Carli said:
Hi everyone, I am new here. I found this site the other day and really like it. I have to say, the women who spoke of being liked/loved unconditionally by the black men they have dated is absolutely freaking true! The average Caucasian American male is so brainwashed and I'm sick of it. Most think women should be blonde, hairless like plastic Barbie dolls, and have surgically-altered breasts that look like cantaloupes. As a woman, I find the expectation/pressure to look/be perfect all the time to be suffocating. I know women who actually set their alarm clocks so that they can get up earlier than their boyfriends/husbands so that the men in their lives will only see the "perfect" version of themselves. Some have done this for decades. The African and Haitian men (I’ve never had the opportunity to date a black man who was born here) I have dated all have wanted me just the way I was—stretch marks, scars, cellulite, stomach rolls, spider veins and all. They could have cared less if I was too busy to make it to the salon to get my legs, bikini, eyebrows, or upper lip waxed.

Another thing that has always bothered me about the American Caucasian guys I’ve dated or been exposed to is that they think sex should be nice, neat, and clean when in fact great sex is just the opposite. They think there should be this small window in which they express their desire for you and the rest of the time they must act socially "appropriate". They also seem to think that to get a woman to sleep with them they need to get her drunk or at least tipsy so she will be more easily convinced/overpowered. The black guys I have dated, on the other hand, just seem to have passion and sexual desire coming out of their pores all the time. The guy I am with now is like that and I just love it. He doesn’t know this, but all he has to do is wink at me and I’d be willing to throw him on the floor and make love to him right there. He doesn’t need to get me (nor have I ever been) drunk for me to want to have sex with him. His natural sensuality is enough of an aphrodisiac. His emotional and physical warmth are enough to draw me to him and to want to stay there (I now know why cats like to sleep on furnaces, lol).

In short, this forum has made me realize that as a sensual, curvy woman, who knows how to flaunt it, trying to be completely/unconditionally loved or desired by a Caucasian guy is like trying to buy groceries at Home Depot. You can’t get nourishment from a hardware store and all this time I have been shopping in the wrong store. Here’s to being loved as you are and shopping in the right place for love!:smt023
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:shock: Wtf? I think you had some ugly experiences with this type of guys, but WM in general are not like that. It's ok if you prefer BM but no need to try to explain this by bashing WM.
 
Carli said:
The average Caucasian American male is so brainwashed and I'm sick of it. Most think women should be blonde, hairless like plastic Barbie dolls, and have surgically-altered breasts that look like cantaloupes.
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I have to say... all but two of my former white b/fs have fallen into this category.

Now I don't blame them as much as I blame myself for having chosen to get mixed up with them in the first place. I should have seen the warning flags but I guess I was naive. Also too I have to admit in my younger days I was attracted to "bad boys" and so I was choosing the wrong guys with the wrong values.

I remember one b/f in particular who ordered pizza and then told me I should only have one slice because I was looking "bovine" or cow-like. At the time I was 135 lbs., almost 5'8" and a size 6.

Another one told me I was very pretty but I had a "big ass." Yet another white b/f once told me -- in bed of course when we were naked! -- that he was worried because I might be "getting a little too fat." Again --- I was a friggin' size 6 and almost 5'8'' tall!! Come on!

I don't put all WM into that category though, my sister is married to a WM who would never, ever treat a woman like that.

But I've NEVER had a comment like that from a BM. Just my experience.

Also too I loved what you said about how you've been shopping in the wrong store. ROFL! :rolleyes:


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thepolice said:
:shock: Wtf? I think you had some ugly experiences with this type of guys, but WM in general are not like that. It's ok if you prefer BM but no need to try to explain this by bashing WM.
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Notice two things: this site tends to use HUGE sweeping generalities, and I only referred to the United States as a culture because it is where I am from/was born and raised.

You do bring up a couple of interesting points, though. I think it may have less to do with race or skin color that played into all of those experiences and more to do with cultural values. As I have said, I never had the chance to date someone of color who was born here, the guys all originiated outside of the United States (i.e. various countries in Africa and Haiti) so that may explain the basic gentility in their nature. I think gentility left this country with the advent of Jerry Springer, MTV, and Girls Gone Wild. It could also be generational. Gen X guys (I'm 30) are a lot more crude than older men who are in their 50's and 60's.
 
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