'Why I Prefer Black Men': A White Woman's Story

[7Seven]

Sabinne.....as you can see the average white women or any person is not "deep" since they can not explain their attractions to black men in any other way besides black skin and what it entails. Riddle me this -- How could black men NOT see racist overtones in these statements!?

Now apply your senses to this.....I have been seeing this women from upstate New York off and on for nearly a year. I have also been seeing this Iranian business women for about a month. The former being stereotypical upper-middle class white women blonde hair, green eyed, etc, etc --- but outside her Godly figure she does not offer much else......she is just here as my tool. I also could say the majority of white women I meet are not worth shit from the pot they piss in.......with this women, we fuck, when I want to fuck. She cleans my condo and cooks. All I do is simply provide her with a sanctuary and help her out with her finances. Not a bad deal correct!? We actually have an excellent agreement. All I have to do is be her bank and provide her with emotional stability and she is happy. Not a problem for me, being that cold and detached is my thing. But I would leave her in a second if the Iranian business women wants to become more serious; and she knows that I am seeing other women.

Now, apply your senses.......call me all the names in the book. This is exactly how black men feel when you apply the basis of your attraction to politics of skin. Obviously, some black men just do not give a damn and are happy to put a dick slaying on the white women who wishes to "conquer the dick." But this is not your superlative black male and not by any stretch of the imagination.

 

[tuckerreed]

hmmm, interesting arraingment, tell us more about the Iranian

 

[tuckerreed]

so sabinne, you were hot for Sardonic until he called you that and you said the F word?

 

[Sabinne]

Sabinne.....as you can see the average white women or any person is not "deep" since they can not explain their attractions to black men in any other way besides black skin and what it entails. Riddle me this -- How could black men NOT see racist overtones in these statements!?

Now apply your senses to this.....I have been seeing this women from upstate New York off and on for nearly a year. I have also been seeing this Iranian business women for about a month. The former being stereotypical upper-middle class white women blonde hair, green eyed, etc, etc --- but outside her Godly figure she does not offer much else......she is just here as my tool. I also could say the majority of white women I meet are not worth shit from the pot they piss in.......with this women, we fuck, when I want to fuck. She cleans my condo and cooks. All I do is simply provide her with a sanctuary and help her out with her finances. Not a bad deal correct!? We actually have an excellent agreement. All I have to do is be her bank and provide her with emotional stability and she is happy. Not a problem for me, being that cold and detached is my thing. But I would leave her in a second if the Iranian business women wants to become more serious; and she knows that I am seeing other women.

Now, apply your senses.......call me all the names in the book. This is exactly how black men feel when you apply the basis of your attraction to politics of skin. Obviously, some black men just do not give a damn and are happy to put a dick slaying on the white women who wishes to "conquer the dick." But this is not your superlative black male and not by any stretch of the imagination.

The reasons that you're with the women in your life are your own, I'm not here to judge you for them. It's your business and I'm not sure why you told me this.

 

[Sabinne]

so sabinne, you were hot for Sardonic until he called you that and you said the F word?

Uh...no. Seven called me those horrible things. I never liked Sardonic...ever.

 

[tuckerreed]

so you have the hotz for seven? why? not to cock block seven just wanted to know

 

[Sabinne]

so you have the hotz for seven? why? not to cock block seven just wanted to know

I said that I liked him, as in I respect him and his thoughts on subjects. I don't think that qualifies as having the "hots" for anyone. I just think he is an interesting person. Why are you asking me these things? Please, I don't think I'm up for anymore abuse today, so if that's what you have in mind, Tucker, just stop.

 

[7Seven]

Sabinne.....as you can see the average white women or any person is not "deep" since they can not explain their attractions to black men in any other way besides black skin and what it entails. Riddle me this -- How could black men NOT see racist overtones in these statements!?

Now apply your senses to this.....I have been seeing this women from upstate New York off and on for nearly a year. I have also been seeing this Iranian business women for about a month. The former being stereotypical upper-middle class white women blonde hair, green eyed, etc, etc --- but outside her Godly figure she does not offer much else......she is just here as my tool. I also could say the majority of white women I meet are not worth shit from the pot they piss in.......with this women, we fuck, when I want to fuck. She cleans my condo and cooks. All I do is simply provide her with a sanctuary and help her out with her finances. Not a bad deal correct!? We actually have an excellent agreement. All I have to do is be her bank and provide her with emotional stability and she is happy. Not a problem for me, being that cold and detached is my thing. But I would leave her in a second if the Iranian business women wants to become more serious; and she knows that I am seeing other women.

Now, apply your senses.......call me all the names in the book. This is exactly how black men feel when you apply the basis of your attraction to politics of skin. Obviously, some black men just do not give a damn and are happy to put a dick slaying on the white women who wishes to "conquer the dick." But this is not your superlative black male and not by any stretch of the imagination.

The reasons that you're with the women in your life are your own, I'm not here to judge you for them. It's your business and I'm not sure why you told me this.

I am just pointing out the hypocrisy's found in the politics of skin. The white women is primarily with me because of what it entails and the Iranian women is hesitant to be with me because of what it entails.

Even if I did not provide the white women with a place of familiarity she will still only be with me because the sex is "hot." The Iranian women she is a lot deeper then that and evolved way beyond the politics. I find her mental control intriguing.

 

[Sabinne]

Your situation is pretty interesting, but it doesn't seem like such a bad spot for a guy. You've got a hot blonde when you want to fuck and a smart Iranian one when you want to talk. It seems like you and the blonde are using each other and the Iranian must be...unaffected. I say that because it doesn't bother her that you're sleeping with another woman. It would bother me and I would never date a man I knew for a fact was sleeping with another woman.

 

[tuckerreed]

i wasnt trying to abuse you but ok, i am the only one who apologized to you but I see that doesnt matter you are going to play these games of now acting like you cant accept an apology and them try to pull sympathy of you are being abused. I asked you a simple question and you twist it, to play a victim.

i got your number now

 

[Sabinne]

i wasnt trying to abuse you but ok, i am the only one who apologized to you but I see that doesnt matter you are going to play these games of now acting like you cant accept an apology and them try to pull sympathy of you are being abused. I asked you a simple question and you twist it, to play a victim.

i got your number now

Look, I'm naturally hesitant about your motives. I'm not going to run up and sing "Kumbaya" with someone who just called me a racist and Klan member, especially when they're asking me personal questions. Even the way you're asking them is rude.

You think you're being so magnanimous for saying "sorry" like you just bumped into me, instead of making my skin grow cold and insulting me on an extremely personal level. And after all of that, you insult me again because I'm not ready to confide in you? Are you on drugs?

 

[Silvercosma]

Well, I can understand that you all need some time to cool off, but I think it was a very nice gesture that Tucker apologized to you.

Maybe it would be a good idea to let this topic rest for today and give it a new and less heated start with good cup of tea (or coffee, long island ice tea or whatever) tomorrow.

 

[tuckerreed]

just as i suspected, some crackhead racist troll on the post, thanks for showing your true strips, hood

 

[Sabinne]

just as i suspected, some crackhead racist troll on the post, thanks for showing your true strips, hood

Tucker, why do you want to ruin an apology by saying these things? You negate the possibility that you were sincere in the first place. You just called me a racist troll again, because I wasn't ready to confide my feelings to you and had the balls to tell you that.

I had a feeling that your "sorry" wasn't all that heartfelt, but you just confirmed it. Please, from now on don't apologize unless you actually mean it.

I think cooling off is a good idea.

 

[SardonicGenie]

As if you have a good point. What I said doesn't matter because I wasn't talking about the same thing when I said it. It doesn't make a difference if I did say it. It doesn't prove you right. It only makes you seem even more petty than usual to bring it up. Just because I disagree with you, and wrote something else in another unrelated thread that you half-quoted just to show more of your ignorance doesn't automatically change everything you said in this thread that I can go back and quote. Still learning, I see.

I do find white skin attractive on a woman

Do you know the difference between being attracted to someone's body part, or simply the color of their skin? Seems like you don't...

Fuss all you like. You said you were attracted to white skin and then called a woman racist because she said she was attracted to black skin.

No, I didn't. I said because of why she is attracted to black skin, she is racist. I told you that throughout the thread, and you still don't get it, and don't get me started on how you have been kicking and screaming throughout the topic. Are you a test tube baby? You write like one. :lol:

 

[SardonicGenie]

i wasnt trying to abuse you but ok, i am the only one who apologized to you but I see that doesnt matter you are going to play these games of now acting like you cant accept an apology and them try to pull sympathy of you are being abused. I asked you a simple question and you twist it, to play a victim.

i got your number now

Ditto.

And, none of us ever said that being attracted to black skin is wrong. We were talking about the reasons why many white women are only interested in black men, like Susan, but instead of understanding that (which is easy to understand) she and Silver can only protest the same thing over and over again, which is pretty dumb.

 

[SardonicGenie]

At first, you claim that there's nothing wrong with only wanting sex from black men, and then you contradicted yourself about it throughout the discussion, but still think that you are right, and I never said that I only wanted sex from white women, in fact, most of the men in here don't say things like that, nor write articles about it, which you would probably have a problem with, unless it's a white woman.

You're not even trying. It's almost like you don't care how idiotic you sound.

I wasn't denying a thing that I said. I have admitted to whatever faults I may possess. If thinking a black man is sexy and then having consensual sex with him is wrong, you'll have to hate me. My boyfriend is a sexy man and I fuck him every chance I get.

I'm not stopping you, am I? I can disagree with you if I feel like it about whatever I choose to, and, if you had any common sense, you would've seen that at first, I wasn't talking about you, but you took it like I was, so who has the reading comprehension issues? :roll:

You have a reading comprehension issue, which I can't even attempt to help you with. If you deny scientific facts that even fourth graders know to be true, a lesson in reading is quite beyond you.

Oh, really? All you can do is rant and whine about what I don't understand, and then make comments like this, along with saying things like 'you still said it', and 'I don't understand your logic', like a kindergartner trying to be witty again, when most of the other posters do. As for my reading comprehension, well, if I were to go back and quote you, you would see all the flaws in yours. You don't even know what you're still arguing with me about, even with your master's degree.

 

[7Seven]

As for not being able to live up to expectations, that's true for any relationship. Do you honestly think women spend hours on their hair and make-up, get plastic surgery and starve themselves so that they won't live up to a man's expectations?

I missed this point earlier. Yet this is just another hypocritical connotation connected to skin colour. The only men with high expectation ARE white men and they are expected to have higher expectations, whilst black men are expected to accept the dogma and make her feel good about herself; because a few white women, those of the likes of this "Susan" with sexual fetishes says so. Understand the power behind the statements of white women who use colour as some sick fetish. You see, they only seek to pleasure white men and not their black male "lovers." Understand the difference!?

 

[Sabinne]

As for not being able to live up to expectations, that's true for any relationship. Do you honestly think women spend hours on their hair and make-up, get plastic surgery and starve themselves so that they won't live up to a man's expectations?

I missed this point earlier. Yet this is just another hypocritical connotation connected to skin colour. The only men with high expectation ARE white men and they are expected to have higher expectations, whilst black men are expected to accept the dogma and make her feel good about herself; because a few white women, those of the likes of this "Susan" with sexual fetishes says so. Understand the power behind the statements of white women who use colour as some sick fetish. You see, they only seek to pleasure white men and not their black male "lovers." Understand the difference!?

How can you say only white men have high expectations? Do all the black men in the world know they aren't supposed to have high expectations because they're black? Do they know they're supposed to just take what they can get? Please, don't tell my boyfriend. I rather like that he has high expectations.

If this woman uses her color as power, she still only has the power that her lovers give her. If they walk away, she has nothing.

 

[webmaster]

Someone complained and alerted me to this thread. I read through it -- and skimmed through the original article -- and although there were posts where some people went a little overboard (on all sides) it appears to have calmed down a bit to the point where I don't feel any administrative interference is necessary at this point in time.

After reading through posts of those involved in this discussion, I am confident that those involved in this thread will work this out on their own without going overboard.

As far as the article this thread is based on, the fact of the matter is, both points of view are allowed on this site. There are many people on this site looking for true love, and there are those here who are looking for sex, friendship, casual relationships, or good a debate. It's all good so long as the white women here are interested in black men and the black men on this site are interested in white women -- no matter what their reasoning or justification behind it is.

Silvercosma's post was pretty much on the money.

I've received emails from people who have met, and married, someone they met on this site. I've also received emails from people asking me to post articles on specific interests (white women's feet is a good example of this).

I may post the original article and link it up to this thread -- in case it is removed from the original site. Rather than condemn someone for their point of view on the article, it may be a good opportunity to find out the reasons behind why they feel that way. It can only help you when you're out in the real world, or in a relationship, and you hear or recognize the same sentiments.

I'll also repeat something I've posted previously:

As far as my moderating style goes... I am for open and frank discussion. I personally hate being on message boards feeling like some webmaster or moderator will ban me, or delete my posts, solely because they do not like me or my opinion. Anyone is free to say whatever they want, to whoever they want -- within reason -- and within the premise of this website. And I'll explain that in more detail in my next post...

By "within reason" I am referring to any post or thread that does not disrupt the operation of this site, harasses others, or that contains explicit sexual or illegal content. Personal ads in the forums are also removed.

The premise of this site is: White women and black men who date each other, or enjoy each others' company -- for whatever reason.

There are people who disagree with that or who are against interracial dating, who still seek out this site on the web, browse these forums; and then actually go through the motions of registering an account, validating it through email, and then coming back on here to say so. Those folks WILL BE BANNED. I really cannot be any clearer than that on that point.

If they escalate the situation, we then take it up with their ISP, hosting company, and if need be, law enforcement. Using a yahoo, hotmail or free email account does not make anyone anonymous.

I would rather work on improving the site, giving quick responses to support emails (I know I've been slacking here) -- making sure you're getting what you paid for, and increasing the value of your membership, over weeding out trolls with ulterior motives.