Why is it so hard for me to meet a black man?

i am a black guy who lives in Africa who prefers to date white women.But i have to say it hasn't been easy ,they are there but convincing her to go out with you is tough most of them still carry on that racist mentality especially in South Africa
 
bisco,

This is off-topic, but I just thought I'd say hello, because there don't seem to be a whole heap of southern african guys on here, and my bf is zimbabwean (Shona)...pretty close to you. So, I just thought I'd say G'day.

Hope things are good in Botswana and that you will find a nice white lady to love and be loved by! ;)
 
bisco said:
i am a black guy who lives in Africa who prefers to date white women.But i have to say it hasn't been easy ,they are there but convincing her to go out with you is tough most of them still carry on that racist mentality especially in South Africa
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Yeah, I know... A lot the boers kind of suck, don't they :)

Have you considered studying abroad? It's easier to meet WW if you are where they are...

I know there are some white people in Botswana too, but (correct me if I'm wrong) they're only 1-2% of the population, and hence the "competition" for the few ww is probably kind of though (as they can choose from both WM and the interested BM)... Even in South-Africa they're a huge minority (but you might have an advantage with them, as I hear rumours that SA WW who are into BM prefer them not to be from SA.)

My BF is Cameroonian, and we would never have met if he didn't originally come study in Europe (Then he stayed here to work some- his plan was actually to go back home, but then he met me :) )
 
Ronja it is not just the Afrikaans but the English as well. They helped keep Apartheid going as long as it did. By the way the PM Verwoard was born in your country.
 
Soulthinker said:
Ronja it is not just the Afrikaans but the English as well. They helped keep Apartheid going as long as it did. By the way the PM Verwoard was born in your country.
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Please stop asuming you know where I'm from...It's getting anoying...

Actually this (and the reason some of your posts to me got deleted by the mod) got so anoying that I at one point considered leaving the board. You really know how to talk to WW don't you?
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I still haven't given up in finding a woman. My main preference is to be with a white or Hispanic woman, but I'm open to dating women of other races. I see there are a couple members on here who are from NC. Being here is a bit of a challenge, though I have seen more interracial relationships here, I keep seeing those having Confederate bumper stickers and flags while I drive around, which I do for a living.

I use a couple of online dating sites, and I'm beginning to feel frustrated. I have used interracial dating sites in past, but found no one near the area where I live. Maybe it's me (I'm appear to be non-talkative and passive in person), I think I need to to work harder on meeting people. I am though optimistic and confident.
 
Ronja, you have not confirmed or deny the location of your country. You and I know where since over some threads you gave hints. I doubt you ever leave since your love for the Motherland is so great the likes of myself seem little. You have no expertise in my inquiry since yours in mostly men from Africa via your boyfriend and his mates.
 
Living in NC is not that bad. It is not Mississippi or Alabama. I never want to find WW over there but I hope you you make the effort to try a little harder. I'm that way too but the drive of breaking out of the shell takes a lot of work.
 
Soulthinker said:
Ronja, you have not confirmed or deny the location of your country. You and I know where since over some threads you gave hints. I doubt you ever leave since your love for the Motherland is so great the likes of myself seem little. You have no expertise in my inquiry since yours in mostly men from Africa via your boyfriend and his mates.
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I know I have not confirmed or denied the location of my country. And I have no intentions of doing so. I don't see why that should bother you so much. (I know you believe it's Denmark though.)

And if you somehow managed to make a correct guess one day, is all pure luck, cause you really don't know what you're talking about when it comes to Scandinavia, sorry.

(Like the time you started talking about the Danish immigration rules :roll: )

Also:
Verwoerd was born in Amsterdam. That's not anywhere in Scandinavia last time I checked. Which is less than a year ago. Lovely city. Awfull airport.( I know the continental plates are moving- but I didn't know it happens that fast...)

Oh, I also don't understand why you're always just making asumptions about me- like about how much I love my motherland... where on earth did that come from? :shock: I don't even really consider that I have one... I've grown up in all three of the countries, and hence I feel equally at home everywhere.
 
mike38 said:
I still haven't given up in finding a woman. My main preference is to be with a white or Hispanic woman, but I'm open to dating women of other races. I see there are a couple members on here who are from NC. Being here is a bit of a challenge, though I have seen more interracial relationships here, I keep seeing those having Confederate bumper stickers and flags while I drive around, which I do for a living.

I use a couple of online dating sites, and I'm beginning to feel frustrated. I have used interracial dating sites in past, but found no one near the area where I live. Maybe it's me (I'm appear to be non-talkative and passive in person), I think I need to to work harder on meeting people. I am though optimistic and confident.
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well i appreciate your honesty its really touching and inspirational at the same time.I haven't given up too i use every opportunity i have to find that special white women,unlike other dudes i have no time to really judge a woman and say i don't like that one because she is skinny or fat if i let her go then when would i find the chance to meet another one.The population of white here is very small so every opputunity i get i have to make sure that i use it
 
Ronja I stand corrected on the birthplace of Vervoerd and as for my guess of your country of orgin I believe the country you mentioned is that country since it is sure its not Sweden which is a EU nation. Besides,one guy from another thread mentioned it. Do you know what I mean about the Motherland? I doubt you don't.
 
Soulthinker said:
Ronja I stand corrected on the birthplace of Vervoerd and as for my guess of your country of orgin I believe the country you mentioned is that country since it is sure its not Sweden which is a EU nation. Besides,one guy from another thread mentioned it. Do you know what I mean about the Motherland? I doubt you don't.
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As mentioned, you really don't know a lot...So please stop asuming stuff. I promise you, I only correct a fraction of the BS you come up with...

Denmark and Sweden is both EU...
Norway is partially integrated through EEA- wich means the principles of free movement of goods, persons, services, and capital also aplies to Norway. Except more freedom when comming to making local decitions, and no vote in the EU-concil there's really not much difference between being a EU country and a EEA country.

It's almost a bit funny, the way you always try to teach me about the countries in wich I've lived all my life. Howcome you believe you have the knowledge to do that? (Quite interesting actually. Never met anyone so obviously asure of himself before. Compared to how little you're actually right it's amazing how high your self asteem seems to be.)

Oh, you say I've given hints. Yeah I probably have. I know at least two places that would give you a hint- if you knew how to use google, or knew a slight bit about the few cultural and the many natural differences there actually is between the countries...

BTW:
Motherland = the country in wich you're from.
(Nope, I'm still not more than normal attached to it...)
Perhaps it has some other meaning I don't know of? I really hope so, cause I'd like to give anyone the benefit of the doubt- perhaps you're not just trying to insult me like always.
 
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