I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

Ymra said:
Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. I'm a member of an Asian message board and they talk about the same shit

They talk about the same shit on black board. This topic is not unique to black men liking whit women.

I agree with one thing you said. The whole idea that "White women that no white man would want are the only ones that date black men" is fucking STUPID.

No ignorant

STUPID.

And not supported by anything other than the bruthaz silly personal observation. Really just doesn't support this at all.
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Oh I know the Asian fever concept you speak of in regards to white guys and Asian women.

But it usually stays around that ballpark, you never hear about the woman is trash, low class, penis size, media conspiracy and all the other extraneous concepts that come out of a WW/BM relationship.

The most I hear is Asian women being called out for hating their Asian features, Asian guys and such ideas, but nothing reaches the degree of lame assertions when it comes to black men with white females.
 
Esoterik Dreadz said:
Look you guys can say whatever you want. But it' the actions of some brothas that have the rest of us dealing with it. For example, a few weeks back i was out for drinks with some colleagues from work when a group of women came into the bar. One of my co-workers said something off hand that "They'd take the 3 skinny ones, and i could have the fat one cuz we know brothas love fat chicks." Of course everyone started laughing and he said he was just kidding but i wasn't amused at all. As usual black men are seen as loving the white man's cast off's and rejects. And when i see threads like this, i can't blame 'em for thinking that.
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This is quite possibly the best post in this thread, you hit the nail on the head, they all ganged up on you because they know what you said it's the truth, people don't like the truth.
 
Just one more thing I wanted to say, I really don't mean to offend anyone, everyone is different, there are even some overweight chicks that look attractive, yes, there are, I mean, check out this profile

http://www.myspace.com/bluesteel6/photos/20683691#{%22ImageId%22%3A20683691}

http://www.myspace.com/bluesteel6/photos/20683691#{%22ImageId%22%3A25283901}

Can you really blame this black dude for dating this overweight chick, heck, I would more than likely date her too if I had the chance, she's absolutely beautiful, so please, don't be offended, beauty is relative, I have nothing against black men who date overweight women, I'm just being honest here.
 
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GQ Brotha said:
Oh I know the Asian fever concept you speak of in regards to white guys and Asian women.

But it usually stays around that ballpark, you never hear about the woman is trash, low class, penis size, media conspiracy and all the other extraneous concepts that come out of a WW/BM relationship.

The most I hear is Asian women being called out for hating their Asian features, Asian guys and such ideas, but nothing reaches the degree of lame assertions when it comes to black men with white females.
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I'm telling you brutha, the conversation is really on different. You hear about class, penis size (oh man do you hear about penis size). You here about reason why darker Asian are more likely to date black men rather that lighter Asians. Sell out, self out, token Asians...(etc). Why most of them date white women (which isn't true)....and on and on and on.

Asians (at least in the US) make ups such a very very small portion of the United States so you aren't going to hear about is as much. But they talk about the very same things.
 
empyrium said:
This is quite possibly the best post in this thread, you hit the nail on the head, they all ganged up on you because they know what you said it's the truth, people don't like the truth.
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Why don't people speak about black men with fat black women
Why don't people speak about white men with fat white women

This is what I'm getting at, what may appear to be merely a stereotype is a reflection of a deeper subconscious in the minds of a white man who immediately launches into that stereotype.

If a person respected you as an individual they wouldn't come out of their face and make that commentary about a black man that they work with. It demonstrated more of a lack of respect than anything else, to assume he is black, he likes fat white woman, giggle, giggle, giggle.

People go to a place and draw upon stereotypes when something bothers them and they can't think critically and impartially about it.

We all know there are countless brothas that date white women across the spectrum of sizes.

Forgive me if I don't have the time to validate some short brained white dude that draws upon a particular stereotype to express himself. This notion can join the pantheon of watermelon and fried chicken.
 
Ymra said:
I'm telling you brutha, the conversation is really on different. You hear about class, penis size (oh man do you hear about penis size). You here about reason why darker Asian are more likely to date black men rather that lighter Asians. Sell out, self out, token Asians...(etc). Why most of them date white women (which isn't true)....and on and on and on.

Asians (at least in the US) make ups such a very very small portion of the United States so you aren't going to hear about is as much. But they talk about the very same things.
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Well you would know a lot more brotha, I don't really hang with the Asian forums. :)

I just know that it seems Asian guys get worked up about white guys and Asian women in America given the numbers.

Also the notion that Filipinos are more likely to date blacks than other Asians and such assorted topics.

I've noticed something though "some" white guys are quick to counter about black penis size is a myth, but when it comes to Asian guys they love to throw around penis size in reference to them vs Asian men. Almost like they are trying to one up Asian guys and put them down in front of Asian women.

Very odd paradox indeed, considering the moment black penis size is mentioned they start to take it rather personally and bristle at the mere mention, but they will down an Asian guy in a second about it and laughing at Asian guys when the subject comes up. Funny how that works.
 
Arwen said:
Sorry, we already had this discussion 234 yrs ago here. NEXT!



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Maybe some of them come up to you because they like you period? Do they always have to have low self esteem problems and go for the black man because of that?
Be sure that when I walk and talk to a black man at the club it ain't because I'm chubby but because I want him.
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lol remember what i said on fb yesterday? well i changed my mind, the number is now zero, lol
 
Doesnt matter if you like thin or thick women...If youre changing up who you date because of what random white men may think, you need to think long and hard about what you stand for. Especially if theyre comin out of their mouth and tellin you straight to your face for their amusement. The saying is true that if you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything.

They want you to be shook. they want you to feel marginalized...and if they have you trying to influence other black men into changing who they are...they're laughing their asses off at you. The exception is your real friends and family if they're concerned about how your woman treats you or if your woman is caught up in drama, hard drugs or other nasty shit.
 
Arwen said:
Babe, you always make so much sense. I agree with what you said. :)



Who said we were pretending. Listen, maybe we have different views on what a big girl is. Big girl isn't TALL. There's a difference. Even though in the last pic she has some more chubbiness compared to the other pics, how can you say she's big? In the first pics you can even see the abs. Come on. Nothing is all black or white. BIG are the girls in the BBW thread for me. There are many shades of "chubbiness" between being slander and obese.
I guess it's just personal.



haha babe, I'm not chubby, I'm obese according to these dudes, but u know what, I never had one single man complaining about my obesity in the right moments :P



I need to have a look at the DSM IV to see what all this might mean...



We accept your opinion, it's just that maybe you should hang out with a sign on your forehead that says "no nasty fat white chicks" so you would be happy? :) Just an advice.
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lol i luv ya hunni
 
GQ Brotha said:
Why don't people speak about black men with fat black women
Why don't people speak about white men with fat white women

This is what I'm getting at, what may appear to be merely a stereotype is a reflection of a deeper subconscious in the minds of a white man who immediately launches into that stereotype.

If a person respected you as an individual they wouldn't come out of their face and make that commentary about a black man that they work with. It demonstrated more of a lack of respect than anything else, to assume he is black, he likes fat white woman, giggle, giggle, giggle.

People go to a place and draw upon stereotypes when something bothers them and they can't think critically and impartially about it.

We all know there are countless brothas that date white women across the spectrum of sizes. Forgive me if I don't have the time to validate some short brained white dude that draws upon a particular stereotype to express himself. This notion can join the pantheon of watermelon and fried chicken.
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Just like there are plenty who wouldn't, as seen by comments on this forum alone.

Funny thing is with people getting so worked up about this, is that there are LOTS of white guys who like bigger girls. One of my good friends is like a UK size 20...US 24? She weighs about the same as my boyfriend, around 200lbs. And whilst with my boyfriend it's muscle, with her, it's not. HER boyfriend is about 150lbs and is a good looking guy and he loves her. He's a white dude. All but one of her boyfriends have been white (one was Asian) and she's never been made to feel unattractive by white men.
A bigger girl that dates a black man just does it because she likes that guy, and that guy likes them. Just like a bigger girl who dates a white guy does it because she likes him, and he likes her.

Yeah there are going to be ignorant assholes who make fun of a dude for his bigger girlfriend, it even happens within groups of friends. One of my black friends likes chubby girls and his (black) male friends rip him for it all the time. It's just banter for them really. Here's an example from a conversation on their facebook:
***** Opara: Fuck i look terrible in that foto
**** Mlele: you always look terrible
***** Opara: Yeah but u like fat chicks

Obviously when it's an obviously ignorant stereotypical comment like 'oh we'll take the skinny ones and you take the big one because black men like those' then you should avoid spending time with people like that.
 
Arwen said:
Babe, you always make so much sense. I agree with what you said. :)
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GQ Brotha said:
Why don't people speak about black men with fat black women
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RIGHT! Now this right here is what crack me up. The only reason why black men go towards white women is because they are big and no one wants them..

...but what about the bruthaz that date big black women (About 4 out of 5 African-American women are overweight or obese.) What's the explanation then?

Bah. When weight is brought up people get defensive period, mostly women....I know I like what I like. I'm attracted to what I am attracted to.
 
Ymra said:
There you have it...she's not big because she has a nice belly.

We can all now go home.
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Hey!! Now I think you're picking a little bit to much on me :-|

All you haters out there can just kiss my HUGE white ass (or just don't go in a thread which name says it all!!)

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Ymra said:
RIGHT! Now this right here is what crack me up. The only reason why black men go towards white women is because they are big and no one wants them..

...but what about the bruthaz that date big black women (About 4 out of 5 African-American women are overweight or obese.) What's the explanation then?

Bah. When weight is brought up people get defensive period, mostly women....I know I like what I like. I'm attracted to what I am attracted to.
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Yeah you're right, and I personally don't think they need to be. I guess people have insecurities and/or want to defend what they're attracted to, which is fine. But I don't see why people focus so much on what white men supposedly like and dislike, they should just focus on what THEY like.

And seriously people who genuinly think that white men don't like big women... check the BBW dating sites, most of the guys on there wanting a bigger girl are white.
 
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