Is your attraction exclusively toward ww/bm?

beccaomecca said:
Haha well, we're in the same predicament. You're not alone in those thoughts. I've always wanted to see Nigeria, legitimately considered going there next year then realised it's really a no go zone for solo travellers.

Australia is safe for anyone and everyone. I'd recommend coming out and checking it out at some stage.
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You may visit Ghana if you wish. It's a safe and peaceful country. Ghana was formerly called the Gold Coast. I heard that there's a place in Australia called the Gold Coast.

Traveling to Australia won't be easy. I'd like to actually live and work there, so it's gonna be a long stay when I travel to Australia. I'd like to work the sort of visa that would allow me stay in Australia long enough, may a work-permit visa would be great. As I said before, I'm currently working remotely and so traveling or relocating won't be an issue. I'm open to finding my other half from another race and different countries.
 
jen14 said:
It would be very difficult for women (and men) to travel half way across the world to meet a date and maintain a long distance relationship, so yea that would be an issue...
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I understand. But it's worth trying. Love comes with sacrifice. I'd be willing to relocate to be with a white woman because that's the cost of building an interracial relationship for me as a black African. Additionally, traveling won't affect my job as a remote worker; I'll balance my relationship with work.
 
Iddrisu94 said:
You may visit Ghana if you wish. It's a safe and peaceful country. Ghana was formerly called the Gold Coast. I heard that there's a place in Australia called the Gold Coast.

Traveling to Australia won't be easy. I'd like to actually live and work there, so it's gonna be a long stay when I travel to Australia. I'd like to work the sort of visa that would allow me stay in Australia long enough, may a work-permit visa would be great. As I said before, I'm currently working remotely and so traveling or relocating won't be an issue. I'm open to finding my other half from another race and different countries. My search is still on.
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I have actually heard that about Ghana. Maybe one day I'll get over there.

The work visa is super easy to get if you're under 30. My ex from yonks ago got his approved within days. He had absolutely no issues getting jobs here in fact he held down 20 in the year that he was here. You just can't work in the same spot for over 6 months and you'll need a certain amount of money in the bank, if you intend on staying you'd need to get sponsored by your employer, the enployer pays a couple of grand... if you meet someone and want to stay, that's a whole nutha costly hurdle. You need to prove the relationship is genuine. Then pay like $15k to get a spousal visa, in the time your visa is processing you can't travel, it can take up to 2 years I believe to get sorted even after paying that exorbitant amount of money.

We do have a gold coast :) our gold coast is full of gangs, drug activity and plastic females lol. It's an eye opener.

But don't let all of the above deter you. At least it is safe and you can walk around at midnight without fear, at least in Brisbane, not really Sydney or Melbourne.
 
I have a friend (a make friend I met online) who became an Aussie. He is originally from New Zealand, lived as an expat in Australia. He actually confirmed that Australia is a safe place for people from diverse backgrounds. So, I'm sure I'll be safe in Australia as a native Black African.
He is gay, and he is dating a Filipino dude in Australia. He seems to be comfortable and safe in Australia. I asked him to look out for any employment opportunities and give me updates on employers are would be willing to hire foreigners. But he says it's difficult to find such employers. Meanwhile, he says there are plenty of job opportunities in Australia.

With the information you shared, I guess things will be tougher for me because I'm over 30.
 
Iddrisu94 said:
I have a friend (a make friend I met online) who became an Aussie. He is originally from New Zealand, lived as an expat in Australia. He actually confirmed that Australia is a safe place for people from diverse backgrounds. So, I'm sure I'll be safe in Australia as a native Black African.
He is gay, and he is dating a Filipino dude in Australia. He seems to be comfortable and safe in Australia. I asked him to look out for any employment opportunities and give me updates on employers are would be willing to hire foreigners. But he says it's difficult to find such employers. Meanwhile, he says there are plenty of job opportunities in Australia.

With the information you shared, I guess things will be tougher for me because I'm over 30.
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That's really awesome about your friend, and finding love over here. It's definitely a very diverse country. I haven't personally witnessed too much craziness, though people do seem to have it in for Indians, mainly because they're such a danger on the roads they drive at least 30ks under the speed limit.... other than that, blacks and everyone else are welcome and IR relations are smiled upon. I'm even seeing Indians with whites which you never would have seen a few years ago.

You're only a year over 30, I'd say try sooner rather than later if you're trying to get over here.

There's plenty of jobs for sure, especially in the labour field. My ex was a scaffolder he had no issues whatsoever getting 20 jobs in a year lol.
 
beccaomecca said:
That's really awesome about your friend, and finding love over here. It's definitely a very diverse country. I haven't personally witnessed too much craziness, though people do seem to have it in for Indians, mainly because they're such a danger on the roads they drive at least 30ks under the speed limit.... other than that, blacks and everyone else are welcome and IR relations are smiled upon. I'm even seeing Indians with whites which you never would have seen a few years ago.

You're only a year over 30, I'd say try sooner rather than later if you're trying to get over here.

There's plenty of jobs for sure, especially in the labour field. My ex was a scaffolder he had no issues whatsoever getting 20 jobs in a year lol.
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I'd be happy to experience life in Australia or any other country, and meet white women (choose a suitable partner). I wish it was an easy process, maybe it is. But I'd definitely want some tips on how to begin (getting hired by companies that hire expats would be great).

I have met a few white women online who were just into the idea of fetishing black dudes and wanted no serious relationship. Some of them were married, engaged or had boyfriends, but just wanted to share only nudes with black men. That isn't my thing (I wanted something serious). I was blocked by some of them and others ignored my messages, because I requested for identity verification purposes (Video calls).

That was how I concluded that they were either married, engaged or had boyfriends, although they claimed to be singles.
 
Iddrisu94 said:
I'd be happy to experience life in Australia or any other country, and meet white women (choose a suitable partner). I wish it was an easy process, maybe it is. But I'd definitely want some tips on how to begin (getting hired by companies that hire expats would be great).

I have met a few white women online who were just into the idea of fetishing black dudes and wanted no serious relationship. Some of them were married, engaged or had boyfriends, but just wanted to share only nudes with black men. That isn't my thing (I wanted something serious). I was blocked by some of them and others ignored my messages, because I requested for identity verification purposes (Video calls).

That was how I concluded that they were either married, engaged or had boyfriends, although they claimed to be singles.
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Sounds like you’re genuinely interested in building a life abroad and finding a serious partner, and there’s nothing wrong with that at all, makes sense.

Moving to a country like Australia can definitely open up new opportunities, both for work and meeting people. Though honestly speaking you'll need a lot of money behind and in front of you to survive here. As like most countries post covid, things are harder including securing accommodation. But nothing is impossible.

I can understand why your online experiences have been frustrating, I share the same frustration.

Unfortunately, some people online aren’t honest about their intentions, it’s good that you set boundaries and asked for video verification. That’s exactly what someone who wants something serious should do. If they blocked or ignored you after that, it probably means they weren’t single or weren’t looking for anything real in the first place. So I guess you dodged a bullet there.

If you’re thinking about relocating, a good place to start is looking into companies that hire expats or have sponsorship options. I believe tech, healthcare, engineering, and construction companies are known to recruit internationally. And know construction was where my ex secured so many jobs.

It might take time, but it’s definitely possible with the right approach.

As for dating, don’t let those negative experiences make you lose hope (I'm being a complete hypocrit haha).

There are genuine women out there in all shapes, sizes, colours and religions who are open to serious relationships and aren’t into fetishising.

You'll get to where you're destined to be, keep the faith.
 
beccaomecca said:
Sounds like you’re genuinely interested in building a life abroad and finding a serious partner, and there’s nothing wrong with that at all, makes sense.

Moving to a country like Australia can definitely open up new opportunities, both for work and meeting people. Though honestly speaking you'll need a lot of money behind and in front of you to survive here. As like most countries post covid, things are harder including securing accommodation. But nothing is impossible.

I can understand why your online experiences have been frustrating, I share the same frustration.

Unfortunately, some people online aren’t honest about their intentions, it’s good that you set boundaries and asked for video verification. That’s exactly what someone who wants something serious should do. If they blocked or ignored you after that, it probably means they weren’t single or weren’t looking for anything real in the first place. So I guess you dodged a bullet there.

If you’re thinking about relocating, a good place to start is looking into companies that hire expats or have sponsorship options. I believe tech, healthcare, engineering, and construction companies are known to recruit internationally. And know construction was where my ex secured so many jobs.

It might take time, but it’s definitely possible with the right approach.

As for dating, don’t let those negative experiences make you lose hope (I'm being a complete hypocrit haha).

There are genuine women out there in all shapes, sizes, colours and religions who are open to serious relationships and aren’t into fetishising.

You'll get to where you're destined to be, keep the faith.
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Sorry for the late comments. I've been busy with work (assessing students' assignments).
Thanks for the kind words. I'll keep the faith and the race going.
 
Gorath said:
You mean someone who resembled Jolene Blalock or Debi Mazar, right? I agree. I fell in love with a Puerto Rican girl in the summer of 1984 who had beautiful and mysterious eyes. Cuteness goes a long way.
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I'm a sucker for piercing eyes...
 
medullaslashin said:
I've been sorta curious about this topic since I joined the forum. I find the attitudes here a bit confusing in fact. ...

Also, while I'm asking, let me also ask: for those of you who have a preference, have any of you ever come right out and expressed it to anyone?

I mean, actually said the words to family? Your S.O.? Friends? If so, tell us about it.
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For me, yes, as a white woman, my attraction is pretty much exclusively toward Black men. Black men are the only men I’ve consistently found myself genuinely attracted to, and I’ve only ever dated Black men, too. It’s not something I decided on as a rule and then forced myself to follow, it’s just where my attraction has always naturally been.

As for whether I’ve actually said it out loud, yes. I’ve been pretty open about it with family and close friends. I don't really feel the need to hide my preference or pretend I'm attracted to people I'm not just to make other people more comfortable.
 
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