Never Satisfied why Nerdy black men can't find happiness

goodlove said:
like someone stated earlier it is about control. women not just bw are selfish and are hypocrites.

when a bm dates a ww they get mad see essence with reggie bush but when a bw dates a wm nothing is said from the bw or the bm.
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No they don't and it is sad very sad. They don't want us but they don't want us to be happy. :smt022
 
goodlove said:
I know this is going to sound dumb as s**t but how approaching a ww at store versus a sista isnt the same but less "swagga" but a little more sensitivity because of the line.

understand what im saying? I mean how do cross without crossing the scaring them line?
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I have a great sense of humor so I make them laugh and then I ask them out sometimes that works.
 
andrae09 said:
Interesting points. So all things being equal love is rooted in economics as well as sentimetn and emotions?
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It's not about the money. It's about someone's drive in all things. Someone who teaches grade school isn't going to wow me with money, but he is going to wow me with what he does.
 
There's nothing sexier than a man who knows subdivision polygonal modeling like the back of his hand. Oh yeah, baby, UVW unwrap those polys and toss on some architectural mental ray materials. *melts*

;)

I <3 Nerds.
 
I'd rather have that nerdy black man than the jerk who thinks he knows everything, or the one who thinks he is the next big thing in hip-hop.

I had nerdy friends in school. Though, I was with the 'in-crowd'. I was friends with almost every cheerleader, jock, prep, and def all the bad girls ;) . But those nerds could help me with more things than my other friends could. They were about the only ones who could keep my mind interested in things.
 
andrae09 said:
29. I know I'm old damn near 30 lol
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That's a shame because you have about 50 more years on the planet! ;) No use feeling old.

erictbrown1 said:
Like they wanted us anyway this woman has control issues.
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I wonder (and I know white girls like this, primarily southern girls) what these women actually want. They claim they don't want "nerds," but balk they don't want redneck idiots/thugs. I guess it's the ol' dichotomy you hear men talking about with women: Not wanting a "brain," but not wanting a ho.
 
bonsaiiKITTEN said:
I wonder (and I know white girls like this, primarily southern girls) what these women actually want. They claim they don't want "nerds," but balk they don't want redneck idiots/thugs. I guess it's the ol' dichotomy you hear men talking about with women: Not wanting a "brain," but not wanting a ho.
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<--- Southern Girl

I really don't need a redneck. Related to too many of them as it is. lol

Can't stand the drug dealers and wanna be thugs either. Makes me want to choke them and yell "Don't bitch about stereotypes and then BE that stereotype!" Grrr.
 
bonsaiiKITTEN said:
That's a shame because you have about 50 more years on the planet! ;) No use feeling old.



I wonder (and I know white girls like this, primarily southern girls) what these women actually want. They claim they don't want "nerds," but balk they don't want redneck idiots/thugs. I guess it's the ol' dichotomy you hear men talking about with women: Not wanting a "brain," but not wanting a ho.
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Why can't I have a brain and a ho? Lol
 
PinkMartini said:
<--- Southern Girl

I really don't need a redneck. Related to too many of them as it is. lol

Can't stand the drug dealers and wanna be thugs either. Makes me want to choke them and yell "Don't bitch about stereotypes and then BE that stereotype!" Grrr.
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*sigh* You nerd. :p (I kid.)

I'm a western transplant here in the south, and I'm speaking about a minority of "those" girls that give otherwise nice southerners a bad name. I get what you're saying about perpetuating negative stereotypes.
 
bonsaiiKITTEN said:
Exactly! I love a broad-minded gentleman!
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I think that most of us are walk contradictions. The only thing that I use to get annoyed at was when girls would say they liked pretty thugs. Such an oxymoron. You can't call yourself pretty and claim to be a thug. Like when dudes were wearing pink in NY and calling themselves gangstas
 
andrae09 said:
I think that most of us are walk contradictions. The only thing that I use to get annoyed at was when girls would say they liked pretty thugs. Such an oxymoron. You can't call yourself pretty and claim to be a thug. Like when dudes were wearing pink in NY and calling themselves gangstas
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That's terrific. And I mean that in the truest sense of the word! LOL!


I'm a smart ass and the man has to be absolutely terrifying for me not to say something about a pink shirt. Can't help it.
 
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