Why would you care? Isn't that HIS business and not YOURS? You don't have to hear them gripe about white men, because when white women gripe about men in general, they are mostly referring to white men, but will make most of it about black men instead. I thought even someone like YOU would've noticed THAT by now... but, just like all the rest, continue to use white people within their relationships as the example that we blacks should somehow follow... :roll: and, your response tells me that not only do YOU and other black women who come in here looking for attention crave love, but 'love' being mentioned in a site that doesn't pertain to you at all, instead of just being self-assured enough to disregard what a select few members in this site say about you, along with feeling the need to constantly defend yourselves. Makes me wonder how such so-called 'empowered women' have no self-esteem whatsoever to stay empowered after any constructive criticism every now and then, and yet, feel compelled to reduce someone else's esteem because of a few simple comments by a few of the posters in here. :roll: Well, we still have your attention, now don't we? Maybe we should be smiling also.