I'm actually glad this has been brought up. it was on my mind too.
i am talking with several girls from a small town called Poltava in ukraine.
Basically - avoid discussion forums which are populated by american and russian white men. They will not encourage you or give you positive advice.
Simply put... they are all racist at heart. the racist russian white men will not help you and will not tell you the truth. the old american white men that typically go there on those tours who is a redneck who is there in the forum will not help you either because he too is racist.
One girl who i talk to is from the small town of poltava and she told me that ukraine white men don't like brown skin men to be with their women. Simply put, there are angry white men in slavic world too! Just not alot.
However, ukraine
women have a huge amount of curiosity toward us black americans. They have interest because its a curiosity thing. Also those women are really tired of how their men treat them too. So this is why they are curious if you will bring a more positive element to their lives.
they are very isolated from what happens in our world and they don't know anything except what they see in movies. And for the ones that don't speak english. well they are even more curious.
but not all slavic women are attracted to black men. But there are so very many that will be that you will feel good about your chances.
Yes, they mostly have expereince with africans or arabians. Not american black men.
I have mixed feelings about certain areas. I have been warned by men that a black man should stay out of moscow. Why? skinheads for one and other types of things. But overall some parts of russia have race problems. So there
But i say yes... focus on areas that are used to dealing with foreigners.
Right now i'm communicating with a girl who lives in Odessa. And she is very very stunnng. She looks like a super-model. She makes some of the women on supermaker magazine covers look like leftovers. And the odd thing is she claims she feels she is too old and that she is average. Its odd because in slavic world there is something in the gene pool there. I mean women are just naturally beautifull. Beautiful eyes, pretty faces, beautiful bodies - and being that its a poor country - the women dress very well too. Pretty women clothes must not cost alot of money there because some of them dress like movie stars.
One woman i spoke to lives in Poltava too. And she is in beauty peageants there too. And the crazy thing is she is tall and stunning and she doesn't do any type of phsysical training to stay in shape. Its shocking. And in some cases she gets 2nd place. So it boggles my mind. That i could have such a woman.
i will say this. The advantage we as american black men have in Ukraine is that you really have no competition at all.
Here in the USA its hard enough to find a woman who is halfway decent who isn't high maintenance and doesn't have an ego. The other element here is there is so much competition and cock blocking over pretty women that its downright hopeless.
So just know that if you learn the russian language, take care of your body (go to gym), have your money/career in order, and dress decent and then just approach the whole ukraine/russian women thing in the right way. You are guranteed to have a fine woman on your arm. And the crazy part is these stunning beautiful women are used to ukraine men who are basically flunkies who drink and smoke too much or old out of shape american white men or geeky nerdy white men.
So i feel so relieved that
1) there is an over-flow of fine women over there and
2) you will have no competition.
it just requires effort on our parts and it will cost some money. But its worth it. You just have to present yourself well. I'm doing some serious dance training right now. And just know that if you're a good dancer you will double your chances. those women love to listen to techno music and dance at the night clubs.
infact i wish to ask a question myself - the girl im talking to now (galyuta) is asking me about race relations is america. And i honestly don't know what to say to her.
I mean i could tell the brutal truth. i could sugar coat things and tell her some things, or i could tell her nothing. i'm not sure. i know that i cannot lie about how it is. I know for a fact that part of the equation is living in the right environment. the other aspect is she is ukraninan/russian. So she needs to be in an environment that is supportive of her needs and be around people who are capable of loving and liking her. It would be hard for her because women (especially american black women) will get jealous of her looks. So i have to really think about what i will say to this woman.
She is not exactly pale/white. She has a very slight brown tint to her skin tone but she isn't really brown either. I guess she might consider herself to be mixed but again she isn't really brown at all. She looks like a beautiful dark haried white woman with a really good everlasting tan. But ukraine/russia is virtually untouched by american black men.
and i'm actually glad for it too. i'm very sick and tired of ego clashing with other american black men because of the fact there there is an attractive woman in the room. So its a breath of fresh air for me.
Sometimes i pinch myself because i'm saying "wow i can have a woman like that?"
