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Old 02-15-2007, 08:58 PM   #1
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Once u go black u never go back

I've heard this a lot. what is your though ?

Personally one of my friend used to have black bfs... she know loves dating white guys so... it belongs to Myth for me ^^

don't know if i shall specify that she's asian (& me too actually :P but it's not about me)
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Old 02-16-2007, 01:09 AM   #2
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Here in the States, it seems like white guys and asian girls are a good match. And this topic has been talked about on this forum on more than one occasion. Personally, I think asian girls just have a "thing" naturally for white guys, but that's just me. They make up the largest group of IR couples in this country.

Um, anyway I'm black myself and the white girls I've "messed" with in the past haven't seemed to stay with black dudes strictly. In America here, I've found that white women love their white men, but quite a few will hook up with a brotha without too much hestitation. I just think that "once you go black" thing is just a myth. Maybe your friend just loves dating white dudes now. She probably still likes brothas, but it's who people are with in the present.

By the way, checked out your yahoo pics. You're a cutie. What nationality are you? And are u into us brothas too?
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Old 02-16-2007, 01:21 PM   #3
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its just a phrase someone coined and stuck...

I know plenty of WW who date only BM and plan to keep only dating and eventually marrying a BM.

However there are others who date any race, or go back to white...

its all up to the women.

I like to kid that I live that phrase because quite honestly I doubt i would ever date again anyone who wasn't black..
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Old 02-16-2007, 02:32 PM   #4
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It's just a stupid myth coined by white males to steer white womenad "other" women they want exclusively for themselves from dating black men. The belief is that if you get "tainted" by a black man, no white man will "want" you again - as though white males were some kind of kings who owned serfs and shit-. Just imagine how white guys would jump out of their skins if Heidi Klum says she's divorcing Seal and she wants a new guy. Yeah, i thought so.

I've dated white girls and some have "gone back". A few have dated other black men but their future dating patterns are none of my fucking bi'nizz. lol.

For real, white males are the most insecure bunch i've ever come across.
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Old 02-16-2007, 07:01 PM   #5
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Thanks Hellspawn i'm indonesian ^^ and yeah i like black guys but i like others too, especially white yeah maybe there is something asian girls/white guys like white women/black guys =]


i believe as well it's just a myth, mostly it will just depend on ur preferences and on who u meet up with. meeting black guy wont change ur life more than meeting a white one or latino or whatever. depends on the people maybe for sassy it's true though :P but it's her choice not the same for all people
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Old 02-17-2007, 06:24 PM   #6
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I get approached by more BM than WM. BM seem to be more cool witht he disability, most WM see me as defective, and yes I've been told this. Whoever said WM are insecure, you're right, and a lot of them are narrow-minded. They don't mind a friends with benefits kind of relationship, but anything beyond that is out of the question for them.
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Old 02-19-2007, 10:08 PM   #7
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By the way, checked out your yahoo pics. You're a cutie. What nationality are you? And are u into us brothas too?
yeah, i checked out her pics too. she is a cutie.
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Old 02-19-2007, 10:12 PM   #8
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I get approached by more BM than WM. BM seem to be more cool witht he disability, most WM see me as defective, and yes I've been told this. Whoever said WM are insecure, you're right, and a lot of them are narrow-minded. They don't mind a friends with benefits kind of relationship, but anything beyond that is out of the question for them.
i just find that statement to be extremely interesting AquaPeach. i've been hearing it more and more how some women say that black men are much more open to accepting them as they are than white men. for me personally, i wouldn't be scared off by a few extra pounds, or a disability or anything like that as long as the woman loves me and i love her. so maybe there is a shred of truth to that as far as black men are concerned u know
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I'm w/ Qsassy and AquaPeach. Have been in IRs before and currently w/ an Haitian, hope it lasts, but if it didn't can't picture falling for a wm. Feel most of them don't have a clue, are insecure and, frankly, don't feel they're very manly; although, as I type that I do have a twinge of hating to generalize.
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I get approached by more BM than WM. BM seem to be more cool witht he disability, most WM see me as defective, and yes I've been told this. Whoever said WM are insecure, you're right, and a lot of them are narrow-minded. They don't mind a friends with benefits kind of relationship, but anything beyond that is out of the question for them.
Pardon my insensitivity, but what disability are you suffering from?
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