"you look like the type that dates white girls"

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Taye, Feb 2, 2006.

  1. TheChosenOne

    TheChosenOne Well-Known Member

    BW are never sure if I date WW...they just assume I don't....WW find me a little intimidating for whatever reason, but once they know me it flips around.....only it flips a little too far to the wrong side. They think I'm a 40 oz drinking, blunt smoking, Cadillac driving, dice playing..thug so when that image is broken down..its like...wow he is safer than prune juice.

    It takes them time to realize...that although I'm not a gangsta..I'm not soft either....the respect kicks in....plus I sound much older and larger than what my actual appearance would suggest. Commanding voice always does the trick.
     
  2. malachi

    malachi New Member

    racial preferences are very arbitrary and have no bearing on the people who may or may not fit the person's stated preference.

    think of a 600lb woman's preference for a slender, built athletic male. or a handicapped person's preference for a walking, able bodied person. inconsequential? my words exactly.

    racial discrimination (i.e. racism), on the other hand, is not arbitrary and can interfere with a certain person's constitutional rights, i.e. "pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness".

    a white girl that actually believes her stank pussy is above an entire race of men is entitled to her preferences. it bears no effect on your ability to provide for yourself, your family, and to find a woman that is more realistic in her outlook towards men.
     
  3. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Well, tuck, along with what Tash said, his bringing up a black man' having to be better than him' just because he's black, is a good tip-off, along with 'wanting to keep the country white', and I have to agree with you on your 2nd sentence.
     
  4. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member



    Can't say that I blame you.
     
  5. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member



    My sentiments exactly.
     
  6. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member



    This is what I believe about 'racial preferences' in white women, who don't want or refuse to date black men.
     
  7. Iffy'swifey

    Iffy'swifey New Member

    He is racist because race should play a part in who gets a job. And wanting to keep your country white certainly is racist! He's basically saying that black people are not as good as white people, so they must be even better at a job to stand a chance. This is just the tip of the iceberg of what that man said on my doorstep. He complained about not being allowed to call a a shade of paint "nigger brown" (as it was previously called many years ago), he gave details of racial incidents between his brother and an Asian family, which resulted in his brother going to court and threats of arson to the Asian family. He also said that he was happy about the earthquake in Kashmir. Now if that doesn't make you racist I don't know what does!

    This twat also praises child beating, including smashing a child's face into a brick wall for looking through the open door of a house. He also said he watches children fall off their bikes so he can laugh, and he suggested that I put pig shit in my front garden to keep the kids from playing in it. All pretty horrible stuff, but even more thoughtless considering I was clearly heavily pregnant at the time!

    Needless to say I reported him and he was sacked...
     
  8. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    THAT'S the kind of racist white man you dealt with? I guess it really does take all kinds to make a world. :shock: :smt011
     
  9. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    To answer the question of this topic, I 've had it happen to me before, but it was ANOTHER black man, instead of a black woman. What does THAT tell you?
     
  10. Iffy'swifey

    Iffy'swifey New Member

    Yes I did! And that's just SOME of what he said. I really can't remember all of it as it was such a surreal conversation that I went indoors wondering if it had really taken place. The man was awful, even after I slammed the door in his face and drew my curtains, he still stood outside rambling on!

    I complained to the painting company and the sent the area manager to see me the following morning. They told me that they weren't surprised as his assistant had expressed concern about his attitude.

    To cut a long story short, the owner of the sub-contractor came to see me and apologized for this man and said he had sacked him as they won't tolerate that sort of behaviour.
     
  11. malachi

    malachi New Member

    refuse seems a rather bit strong of a word, as it implies the ability to make choices, when really, these women are not making choices, but simply following the trends and images set before them by dominant society (as the majority of people do, regardless of race and gender). fact is most women, and men for that matter, are "sheep" in one way or another, and certainly some more than others.
     
  12. chocoluscious

    chocoluscious New Member

    Well on the topic. There are some signals. For instance, people can tell that I am 'American' without me saying a word. How do they do that? Its the way I dress, the way I carry myself, my mannerisms etc.
     
  13. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    well if a ww can use racial preferences to determine who she would rather date, I believe that companies can use racial preferences with whom they want to hire--I just suggest that my white friends not talk about why they didnt hire the black person or other minority for the job, pretend it was for other reasons.

    we cant have it both ways, racism for one thing, and not the other
     
  14. malachi

    malachi New Member

    their racial preferences led to an act of racial discrimination (in the case of the employment)

    and that's life -- people simply deal with the cards they are dealt and do not concern themselves with what doesn't come their way and learn to recognize what does come their way. besides, there are far more important things in life to concern oneself with than some white girl's preferences.
     
  15. jxsilicon9

    jxsilicon9 Active Member

    So true.
     
  16. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    southern belles and dixie darlins' down on the redneck riviera--Panama City Beach Florida!!

    hot charlotte summers, or a high Charleston day! a texas kitten, oh yes
     
  17. PeyBackTime8818

    PeyBackTime8818 New Member

    My ex Kristen, who is from Macon, Georgia, used to go to Panama City every year for Spring Break. So one year she let me come so I could see what all the fuss was about. And BOY OH BOY, the FINE ASS white pussy down there is RIDICULOUS!!!! Her friend Stacey ended up getting drunk and getting fingered by 2 guys in a hot tub. She did not even remember most of it and her boyfriend at the time dumped her after he found out. Chicago has lovely beaches as well my friend. Miami is a little over rated, west coast is off the hook as usual. Cancun is fun but over crowded. The clubs are jammin' too.

    Here in NY, one thing: Jersey Shore, summer time, techno clubs...the Italian girls in mini skirts and hot pants...WHOO BABY!!! It's too much...too much !!!!!!
     
  18. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    jersey shore is too trashy, guido/ghetto;

    i love the Keys, Martha's Vineyard, Bar Harbor, Bainbridge Island WA, the San Juans, Nova Scotia, Big Sur, Port Aransas texas, outerbanks,
     
  19. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member



    I concur with you.
     
  20. Taye

    Taye New Member

    A little short story here that made me create this thread. A friend of mine in college dressed and looked like a straight up thug everyday. I don't mean like flashy looking I am talking a really scary looking "nigga". lol straight up G-Unit type of brotha. Dude had a slight scar on his face and always wore the classic thug attire. One day I see dude in the hall and I almost didn't recognize him , he had tight blue jeans, a button down collar shirt and was wearing glasses instead of contacts. Iam like :shock: who the hell is this guy? He is even talking totally differently. Then a pretty cute white chick comes out and asks what time is he going to pick her up. Then it dawned on me that He looked like the type of guy that PREFERS white girls to Date not just FUCK. Plenty of black guys of all types fuck white girls but very few I see actually openly claim them as their "girl" or seriously go out with them. this guy had told me before that when he was in Texas (mostly around black women) he could says thing like wat's up ma? or wats up gurl? ,but now that he was in a mostly white school (Michigan) white girls would just look at his ass like :roll:. Now homeboy is like "excuse me?", "pardon me?" and shit. lol The even funnier thing is it just reminded of me of myself iam just a natural excuse me/button down kinda dude, thats my natural persona even though i can dress gangsta if i want too.
     

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